Her Imperial Majesty Empress Farah Pahlavi of Iran and her eldest grandchild, Her Highness Princess Noor Pahlavi, reveal their close bond as they look to the future in their first-ever joint interview.
From a fifth-floor window overlooking Paris’s murky Seine River, an 80-year-old lady stands straight and tall; the white of her pantsuit illuminating the dull, surrounding wintery gray. Her Imperial Majesty Empress Farah Pahlavi, the last queen of Iran following 2 500 years of imperial rule, is as still as a sculpture. I observe her quietly from the doorway as she appears to undulate between myth and reality.
Forty years have passed since the Queen and her late husband, His Imperial Majesty Mohammad Reza Pahlavi, were forced into exile during the Iranian Revolution. On January 16, 1979, the Shah piloted his Boeing 707 with his wife and their closest confidants on board out of Iran for the last time. The path thereafter would be long and at times tragic. The King would die of lymphoma cancer 18 months after being forced out of the homeland he ruled for 38 years. He was laid to rest in the Al- Rifa’i Mosque, also known as the King’s Mosque, in Cairo. Their two youngest children, Princess Leila, and Prince Ali-Reza, who never reconciled with life in banishment, took their own lives. As I consider these misfortunes, from the window, Her Majesty turns, smiles, and says, “I am not bitter. Such thoughts only invite the enemies to win.”
It is only a few days into the new year, and though not particularly cold, the city is moody. What little light enters the floor-to-ceiling, wood-paneled salon dims considerably during my three-hour audience with Her Majesty, until we are almost cloaked in darkness. Sitting to my left on a white cushion couch is the Queen’s 26-year-old granddaughter, Her Highness Princess Noor Pahlavi. The firstborn of Crown Prince Reza Pahlavi – the man who would have been shah – is an MBA student at Columbia University and an advisor to the non-profit impact investment fund Acumen. In black leggings and a red sweatshirt, her frame is as slight as a couture model’s. Her brown hair is pulled into a ponytail revealing high cheekbones while her large almond eyes mirror those of her late grandfather’s.
Originally published in the March 2019 issue of Vogue Arabia
We speak uninterrupted for hours, but it is the following day, when the Queen’s residence is alive with the photo shoot crew, that I witness a feisty exchange common to family. “There is nothing wrong with this dress!” exclaims Princess Noor to her grandmother. She is wearing a skin-toned Dior gown; its delicate bustier resembling a sleeveless unitard. While she appears like a ballerina, the Queen firmly objects to the attire. The shoot has not yet begun and she can shut down production at any instant. Princess Noor’s outburst is not the nature of a glamour-seeking woman, however. Rather, that of one stifled by the weight of a regime that now demands women to be modest.
Her great-grandfather, Reza Shah Pahlavi, founder of the Pahlavi dynasty, decreed the removal of the veil in 1935. The veil returned as a symbol of resistance against the imperial dynasty during the revolution of 1979, led by Ayatollah Khomeini. By 1983, it had become mandatory for women to be veiled in public regardless of religious belief, in a country where Muslims, Christians, Jews, and Zoroastrians coexisted.
“My memory is not what it was,” starts Her Majesty, when I ask her to recall her emotions at the birth of her first granddaughter in Washington. “I was just happy to have a healthy grandchild.” How different the scene, when Queen Pahlavi – third wife of the Shah, following his divorces from Princess Fawzia Fuad of Egypt and Soraya Esfandiary-Bakhtiari – gave her husband and country a long-desired male heir. “My wedding dress was designed by Yves Saint Laurent, who was working for Dior at the time. His seamstresses sewed blue thread in the dress to help me have a boy,” she recalls, smiling at the memory.
With a slight shake, as though she is physically stepping out of the past, the Queen next pronounces that her granddaughter has a talent for painting. It is a high compliment coming from a woman who befriended the likes of Salvador Dalí and Andy Warhol, and, ultimately, launched the region’s first and most complete art museum, the Tehran Museum of Contemporary Art, in 1977. “I got it from you, Mama Yaya,” smiles Princess Noor, revealing her grandmother’s nickname. “I used to watch you make us watercolor bookmarks that you would gift me and my sisters [Princess Iman, 25, and Princess Farah, 15]. You would have all these art supplies at the house in Greenwich.” The Queen is swiftly drawn back into her memories. “After I lost my son Ali-Reza in 2011 – he was so intelligent and hardworking; he knew the history of Iran unbelievably well – a friend of mine, said, ‘Why don’t you come to my house and draw? I have the canvas and the colors.’ It helped me…” She speaks easily and lovingly of her four children. Of her eldest, Crown Prince Reza: “A great pilot, he sees the world from ‘up there.’ He doesn’t keep animosity in himself.” Her second child, Princess Farahnaz: “As a girl, she was a garçon manqué, as they say in Iran, but very sweet and with a good heart. Her siblings called her Mother Teresa. One day, Leila came to her and said, ‘I saw the homeless person near the apartment wearing the pullover I gave you!’ Farahnaz is that kind of woman.” Of Princess Leila, her youngest, who died at 31 in London in 2001, the Queen recalls: “She was intelligent, with so many good ideas. I’ll never forget when she said we should tell Walt Disney to make cartoons about the heroic poems of an important Iranian poet…” Her voice trails at the memory of her deceased children. “There is not one day that I don’t think about Leila and Ali Reza. But I have to keep my spirit and my courage for my other children and for Iran.”
The Queen’s two-story Paris residence, with winding hallways and hidden rooms, is filled with family photographs of smiling faces celebrating Iranian traditions, such as burning esfand as incense and fire-jumping Chaharshanbe Suri, and joyous milestones, like birthdays and graduation ceremonies. “I keep all the letters, pictures, newspapers, and so many books in this house and in the US – I’m what Americans would call a ‘hoarder,’” smiles the Queen. “I wonder what will happen to all this,” she ponders, looking around. On the second floor of the apartment hangs a painting of the late King and the Queen on a motorcycle. “It’s my favorite image of her,” says Princess Noor. “It makes me think, my grandmother was a badass.” “A what?” her grandmother laughs. “A badass, Mama Yaya,” repeats the Princess articulating each syllable. Certainly, no one has ever dared refer to her as such in her presence. “I was on a motorcycle on Kish Island,” she explains. “I was going too fast and fell. As I lay there, dizzy, the security was saying, ‘Your majesty, get up! People are passing by in a bus.’ But I was fainting! Even now, people call this road, The Road of Farah.”
Every object in the Queen’s home tells a story, political or poetic. A piece of the Berlin Wall – “I wish it was bigger!” – sits next to a robust bronze tome filled with the Shah’s reforms. On another shelf rests a replica of her coronation crown. In 1967, the Shah crowned his empress as a symbol of the emancipation of Iranian women – and for this singular occasion, he had one made. Van Cleef & Arpels was chosen to create the coronation regalia set, with the crown featuring a 150ct emerald and 1,541 stones from the imperial treasury.
Beyond the stone walls of her residence, the Queen appears indifferent to her picturesque surroundings. “When you walk along the streets, it’s not your own soil; you feel it,” she comments. Perhaps because they are exiled from their homeland, Princess Noor remarks that the family is especially tight-knit, all the while respectful of each other’s freedoms. “More so than any Iranian mother, my grandmother has always given her kids space. She’s there for them when they come to her – which they do, often. None of them get in each other’s business. It’s always just pure enjoyment when they are together. Our relationship with her is different,” she continues, referring to her sisters and cousin. “My father had his own residence at four years old [at Niavaran Palace]; he wasn’t sleeping in her bed like I was.”
Princess Noor is a polyglot partial to reading non-fiction, like technology entrepreneur Elon Musk’s biography, neurosciences, and epics like Les Misérables, Victor Hugo’s anti-monarchist, the pro-revolution novel published in 1862. She shares that she was an aware and alert infant. “Forever asking questions,” confirms the Queen. The young princess was quick to notice the attention surrounding her grandmother. “People would get emotional around her, and it was confusing to me, obviously, as a child.” As for discovering her imperial pedigree, it was never introduced to her as a privilege; rather a role of responsibility and service. “My parents had this fear, I think, because of what happened with the revolution, and how it affected my aunt and uncle. They never wanted our identity to surround that and that life. They wanted us focused on our education; never thinking that anything would be handed to us because of a title or lineage.”
A few weeks after the interview, I am on the phone with one of the one million registered displaced Iranians. She agrees to speak with me on condition of anonymity, to protect her family in Iran. “Queen Farah is very popular, well-loved, and respected. We call her ‘Mother of Iran,’” she starts. “As queen, she was always encouraging women – she did things that other wives of shahs had no history of doing. She played a big role in women’s lives at a time when we were starting to become equal to men, including joining the army – all the things not possible before,” she shares. “I had finished law school and, after the revolution, was building a practice with my brother. I had many dreams at the time, but none of them came true. I wanted to be a judge – but there are no female judges in Iran. Women are deemed ‘too emotional’ to make a decision.” She continues to describe how the revolution tore families apart. People became poor. Inflation followed. Women were stripped of their rights. “Now, in Iran, they say the only one who wants to come back is Crown Prince Reza – Iranians want to leave. I once wrote to Her Majesty and told her my story about fleeing Iran pregnant, and that I looked forward to one day returning. ‘I am sure that Iran will rise from its ashes,’ she responded.”
In 1925, following the 1921 Persian coup d’état, Reza Shah Pahlavi was put on the throne by the constitutional assembly. He proceeded to launch a central government and build infrastructure that remains today – the army, police, the first universities, roads, railroads, and hospitals. The late Shah Mohammad and his queen built on that legacy with land reforms, suffrage for women, nationalization of oil, globally unmatched GDP growth, and the celebration and patronage of arts and culture. “I don’t know many cultures that have gone backwards like ours,” comments Princess Noor. “Under my grandfather, women were extended extensive legal protections and were given the right to vote [in 1963] – even before women in Switzerland.”
Today, according to the World Economic Forum’s 2018 Global Gender Gap Report, Iran ranks 142 of 149 countries. Iranian women are systematically barred from social, educational, and legal rights and protections. The princess underlines the disparity between people living in the city versus those in provincial villages. “There are drastic differences, even in healthcare, available to women. A lot of this has come to our attention with my mom’s illness,” she says. In November last year, Crown Princess Yasmine announced on Instagram that she was suffering from breast cancer and would undergo a double mastectomy. “She’s created this open portal into her treatment to raise awareness for breast cancer and women’s health,” says the princess, proudly. “But what she discovered is that in Iran, a lot of care surrounds reproductive health only. Apart from delivering a child, a woman’s feminine care is ignored.”
“Some of the older generation asks, ‘Why does she talk about that?’” notes the Queen. “But it’s very positive that she opens up to people.” Princess Noor continues, “My mom wants to see certain cultural stigmas eliminated. She’s received a lot of heat throughout her marriage – sometimes for just traveling without her husband. I don’t know if it’s because she is a woman, or if it is just an idea of what the imperial family should be. But for her, speaking out about her illness is important.” She adds that were her mother not living and being treated in the US, she might have died.
As if for comfort, Princess Noor gives her grandmother’s Cavalier King Charles spaniel’s belly a rub. Mowgli, a gift to the queen from her granddaughter, has spent the past few hours alternating between the women’s affections. Looking tenderly at her Mama Yaya, Princess Noor comments, “She is kind to all living things and has empathy for anything innocent. Seeing her experience so much and maintain her composure, we feel stability and strength in turn.”
Of her aspirations for the Pahlavi legacy, which she will one day carry on her slight shoulders, she comments: “Our legacy lives on today – because of the contributions my family has made and the beliefs we espouse.” She stresses that her father advocates liberalism and democracy. “Iran means everything to us, but whether we occupy any official role in the future is not up to me but to the people. The future is in their hands, as it should be.”
Photography: Stéphanie Volpato
Style: Sarah Cazeneuve
Hair: Olivier Lebrun
Makeup: Camille Siguret
With Special Thanks To Nazy Nazhand, and our travel partner Air France
Read Next: Meet the Stylish Ladies for Who Are Using Fashion to Give Back to Society