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Adut Akech Opens Up About Her Pregnancy Journey

Right before Adut Akech found out she was pregnant, she dreamt her sister was.

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The dream was so lucid that Akech woke up in the middle of the night. She frantically called her in a nocturnal haze to see if it was true. Her sister assured her it wasn’t—that she was very much not expecting.

But Akech now sees it as the first omen of many. The next day, she found herself with an unusual craving for oranges, peeling them constantly at home, then packing bags of orange slices to carry in her purse. The day after that, she found herself the most exhausted she’d ever been in her life. Sure, she had just attended the Valentino show in Paris, posed in several shoots, and then flown back home to Adelaide, Australia. But as a top model, that had always been her schedule.

Then came the day of pregnancy reckoning. “I was picking up my car from the service center—with my bag of oranges!—and when driving back home, I started feeling like I was going to throw up,” she recalls. That’s when it dawned on Akech that she, not her sister, might be the one who needed to pick up a test from CVS. She took five, and they all said the same thing: She was definitely and undisputedly pregnant.

Adut Akech is 24 years old, three years below the U.S. average age for first-time mothers. “I always said I wanted to be a young mom because I love the idea of growing up with your kids,” she says. That’s the relationship she shares with her own mother, who had Akech when she was 20 years old. “The age difference plays a huge role in how close we are,” she says. Plus the model loves kids. She wants at least four. Ideally five. She’d also be cool with six, if some end up “twinning.”

How’s the journey with number one going? She answers, breathlessly: “I’m good. I’m excited. I can’t wait. I’m like—can they just come already? I’m kind of over it and I’m just halfway.” Pregnancy, she goes on to say, has been a “beautiful feeling, but a mental and physical rollercoaster. Nothing really ever prepares you for it.”

It’s one thing to read about pregnancy-specific weight gain, for example. It is totally another thing to actually experience said weight gain. Or when the exhaustion comes with a mind-boggling, simultaneous case of insomnia. Or when your simple craving for oranges morphs into a bizarre eating pattern. Some days, Akech isn’t hungry at all. But other days? “I want everything—I’ll force my mom to cook three traditional dishes and on top of that I’m having KFC.”

It’s not just the cravings that have Akech thinking a lot about her upbringing. Born in South Sudan, as an infant, she and her mother were forced to flee the country due to civil war. For eight years Adut Akech lived in a Kenyan refugee camp.

She knows her child won’t have the same journey—and of course, she doesn’t want them to. But she does want them to have the same values such a difficult road gave her: “When you don’t come from much, you don’t really value the material stuff,” she says. “I could have easily gotten carried away with the life that I now live. But I think I’ve always just in the back of my head: Remember where you came from,” she says. “If I can take care of my family and take care of myself, that’s it, I’m happy.”

“I just want to teach my kids what’s valuable. And what’s not,” she adds, before pausing. “Just to be a kind, decent human being.”

Her kids, for starters, are going to work. Sure, their mother may be a world-famous supermodel who has been on the cover of Vogue, served as a muse to Pierpaolo Piccioli and the late Karl Lagerfeld, and even starred in a Beyoncé music video. But for Akech, that doesn’t matter. “My mom didn’t have anything! I bought my own first car—so I’m going to make sure that my kid buys their own first car,” she says.

Later that night, Akech is throwing a gender-reveal party with her family and partner Samuel Elkhier, as well as a few close friends. She’s excited to find out if she’s having a boy or a girl, but she’s also excited because she’s finally wearing a cute outfit after months of, well, not: “I lived in the same three pairs of sweatpants. One was Alo. One was Lululemon. The other one might’ve been Victoria’s Secret.”

It might seem a drastic style switch for the model, who wore a skin-tight lace LaQuan Smith catsuit to the 2024 Met Gala (when just over a month pregnant) and a custom Nensi Dojaka corset to the 2022 Fashion Awards. “But I don’t go anywhere in Adelaide!” Akech says, laughing. “I go to my OB-GYN, I go back home. I go to my pregnancy Pilates, I come back home. I pick up my siblings from school, I come back home. That’s my life! There’s nowhere to dress up!”

The model has about 10 weeks of pregnancy left. She’s both amazed she’s come this far and that she still has so far to go: “I’m just waddling around like, ‘What is this?’” she says, exaggerating her movements to comedic effect. But after gathering herself together, she looks me straight in the eye. “Women…we’re built different, honestly,” she says. “I don’t think men could ever.”

Originally published in Vogue.com

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